Miss Manners: My husband snapped at me when I did him this favor
DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband asked me if I would hand him a specific item from his sizable work bag, which was across the room. I brought him the entire bag instead of removing the requested item.
His response was to angrily snap at me that I might as well have not done him a favor at all, and went on to imply that if I’m too lazy to do a favor in the manner requested, that I should say so and he would just do it himself.
I was floored at the rudeness of it all and stubbornly stood my ground, saying that he should be more clear. He maintains it is common sense that I should have brought him the specific item requested, not the entire bag, and that it is not unreasonable to expect a favor to be done precisely as it was worded.
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He apologized for his overreaction, but he wants an apology from me — for angrily telling him that the only proper response when someone does you a favor is “thank you” and that his argument is absurd.
I just can’t bring myself to apologize for doing him a favor. I have a feeling this argument is …read more
Source:: The Mercury News – Lifestyle