I smoke weed. I’m still a responsible parent.
I don’t want to shock you, but more than half of the 55 percent of American adults who use some form of cannabis are parents. Of that half, 16 million have children under the age of 18. Let me repeat that: Many cannabis users are parents. With. Young. Children. Many pot-smoking parents, even if they live in a state where weed is legal, feel the need to remain anonymous, so you may not know about the legions of them because stigma still abounds.
I hereby exit the weed closet and admit that I am a parent who occasionally enjoys cannabis. But before you call social services, please hear me out.
We all know that alcohol is a part of parent culture. Hell, it’s a part of the culture. Sunday barbecues go with beer. Mom’s night out is at a local wine bar. Weddings, birthdays, baseball games — you name it, Americans like to drink. And most people would agree that it’s OK for a parent to have a glass of wine, or even two, while parenting. Obviously, not while driving one’s kids to art class. Obviously, not with breakfast. Obviously, not to any kind of excess, since that’s unhealthy for everyone, and potentially dangerous. But in moderation, it’s okay.
I think the same is true for cannabis. Adults can consume it responsibly and still be good parents. They can hold down jobs, pay bills, feed and house their families, and provide emotional support. They can teach their kids the social, self-care, and intellectual skills life requires and they — we — shouldn’t be stigmatized.
Let’s take a step back and talk a bit about how and when cannabis became illegal in the U.S. During colonial times, farmers were encouraged — and at one point in Virginia, required — to grow hemp …read more
Source:: The Week – Lifestyle