Miss Manners: They’re all so lonely. How can I help?
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m almost in tears and I’m not even the one affected.
I have a difficult cousin who is getting married. She has no friends. No one is standing up for her, there are
no showers or festivities, and the one abortive attempt at one was canceled because no one would come. I’ve had trouble with this person in the past, but I wouldn’t wish this on an enemy, much less a relative.
As I reflected on what I could do for her (I’m throwing a small party in her honor and prevailing on my own friends to come meet the bride), it occurred to me that I am surrounded by lonely friends, relatives and acquaintances who are living like virtual hermits.
Miss Manners: They want you to feed the demon you’re trying to quash
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Miss Manners: I feel I should email an immediate thanks for shipped gifts
Miss Manners: Act like a landlord, not like an offended host
They only happen to brush up against other people at work or grocery shopping, often not even then, and they are depressed about it. I’m hardly a popular person, but I try to make introductions.
What can the somewhat-more-popular people do to relieve the friendlessness of the less popular people they know and care about? What has happened to society, Miss Manners?
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Source:: The Mercury News – Lifestyle